Variate the pace of your voice and the volume when speaking to a crowd.” Those are two nice things, but if they happen mechanically, it gets monotonous. Some people are encouraged when they're coached: "At this point, leave where you're standing and walk over there and take a pause." That may make sense in terms of how it's written; at the end of that paragraph, you want to make a space before the next paragraph, but it may not make sense in terms of how you're talking and relating to the audience.

folks with whom you're conversing That should be the source of a pause, the source of movement: relating to them. As a result, we have a dynamic relationship that leads to a chasm.



A suggestion is nothing more than an intellectualization of that.

It's fine to offer someone once they've established a foundation in their ability to connect, but it should come out of the connection. It should not be a checkbox to be checked.



  1. Say three important things 

  2. Say it in three different ways

  3. Say it three times




 

  1. Say three important things


When you talk to someone, try to say only three crucial things. There should be no more than three. If it's just one item, that's even better, but there's generally a lot to say. Make a list of things you want to talk about and see if you can go above three, four, and five minutes. Start removing them or see if you can incorporate them into something else. Never read it since it will just excommunicate you; reading is not communication, but ex-communication. So what's the point of telling them stuff they won't remember if you can't recall more than three things and they can't remember more than three things? As a result, limit yourself to three.




 

  1. Say it in three different ways


If you have a difficult concept to grasp, or something you believe will be difficult to grasp, try saying it three times. If you approach it from multiple angles, you have a better chance of acquiring a three-dimensional understanding of this challenging concept, so try saying it three times.




 

  1. Say it three times


If you have a tough concept to convey, repeat it three times during the presentation, so that the first time you hear it, you become accustomed to it, the second time it becomes familiar, and the third time you say, "Oh yes, right." Okay”



It's a methodical procedure. You must convert yourself into a better communicator. You must go through procedures that are similar to going to the gym, but they are much more enjoyable since they require connection with another person, and we are built to connect with others. Despite how much we want to avoid it, it is truly enjoyable when we find ourselves in that situation. So, if we can change ourselves into loving connecting with the audience we're speaking to or writing for, these tips will come naturally or we'll be able to put them to use in terms of that transformed style of connecting. It feels fantastic.