We must be able to share ourselves with other people in order to establish genuinely linked relationships, and many individuals are hesitant to do so because they are afraid of the other person's reaction. People create new love stories about themselves in order to stop loving from behind a wall and begin living a profoundly connected life with people who love them for who they are.


So, while we may want to reveal something about ourselves from time to time, it cannot be solely about us. You've probably had an encounter when you've had a feeling that you're sensing a dream, a goal, and it's sometimes about you and the person you'll be sharing it with.


Let's start with when it's just about us, when we have an experience that we want that person to know about us, or when we have a new idea that we want to share about ourselves, or when we're having an uncomfortable feeling, such as anxiety or fear, and we want to let that person know how we're feeling, so what can we do because we know what we're feeling?


So what we can do is that we can actually take another step there and that is how we want them to answer we say that I want to share with you, but I just want you to listen, I don't want to fix this issue yet, or I want to share with you, but I don't want to make a plan, I just want you to know I can get support and emotion. I don't want you to share it.


It's not how we build relations with others, so when do we wait for that share when we have something we are getting older that's a baby and we aren't ready to make critical feedback or when you know there is a shortage of enthusiasm or that there's a lack of enthusiasm, we don't make those connections and we just live indoors.


 Maybe it's something we did that we feel is potentially going to have a big response and we see it doesn't tell them how to respond when it's up to them they will react like they will, then we have to be sure that we've done it on our own and we're ready to do something if we're in a mess and just spill it and they're not going to do it.


That's what we're doing in the 21-day heart purification process, and we put our experiences through a process so that we've come across the other side and are quiet, so we're ready because we've already worked on it for any experience, so you need to first do it before you share it and if you have something you know you have to do.