Have you ever realized how some people just walk in and lighten up the room and always wanted to be like those people? This is a new year and it is time for a new one. Here are seven sure-fire, quick, and simple ways to become this new person.


  1. Conversation ratio

  2. Icebreaker Jokes

  3. Name Card

  4. The Secret Strategy

  5. Roots Of Interest

  6. Magnet Of Friends

  7. The Art Of Saying No





Conversation ratio


Listen is this magnetic and odd thing like a creative force and the friend we hear is the one we are drawn to so that the perfect conversation is 75 people listen and 25 talks. And also, when someone talks to you, cultivate the art of active listening so that they don't just nod and go wow, and yes they're really superb.





Icebreaker Jokes



Without some leg-pulling and laughing no nice chat is finished, and a person is charming when he or she can rely on himself and shows that he or she is comfortable in his or her own skin and that it sounds like relaxing the group quickly that they look at the human side.





Name Card 


You know that in the mythology of Egypt a sun god has to go through the darkness every night and fend off these monsters, and only because the monsters could not attack him did they know their true names and in a few sci-fi movies, the idea of true names giving you power is also shown.





The Secret Strategy


In a book, the psychology of perseverance Robert Cialdini talks about the principle of shortage. He says that if something is scarce or it is in shortage, then for a person it's appealing, then we call it the secret strategy, meaning that if you say to someone a secret, they think you trust it.





Roots Of Interest 


Have you ever met a person who can kill you by talking repeatedly about the same subject? A charismatic person is able to communicate about a broad range of topics fluently, thus it is important to build passion and interest in various subjects and to be sensitive to people, and to respect their own thoughts and ideas, and also their own preferences. They're sure to get interested in something they're passionate about

you.



Magnet Of Friends



 

Now, having a home of friends and building fantastic relationships with people by socializing frequently will give you a lot of confidence, but it's also necessary to be really kind, compassionate, helpful, and appreciative of others. People like you not only for who you are, but also for how you make them feel, and if you make them feel good, you'll become a wonderful magnet for all of your friends.





The Art Of Saying No



It's difficult to get out of bed on a weekend, especially after a long week, but it's even more difficult to say no to this overly enthusiastic friend for a group meetup. There's a fine line between being likable and being rude, but a charismatic and confident person is one who can say no politely but firmly so you could say.